if I asked when's the right time to determine a person's success and the success ? Thus , when the answer is still an early age. Really? Well I'll share a fact that has been widely studied by researchers world .
At the early age of 0-6 years , the brain develops very rapidly up to 80 percent . At that age the brain to receive and absorb various kinds of information , does not look good and the bad . That is where the times of physical, mental and spiritual child will begin to form . Because of this , many are calling this period as the golden periods of the child ( golden age) .
A
study conducted by an expert from the Child Development and Behavior
American named Brazelton said that the experience of the child in the
first months and years of life will determine whether the child will be
able to face the challenges in life and whether he will demonstrate a
passion for learning and succeed in the workplace .
Now
, therefore , we as parents should take advantage of a golden period
for the child's character education is good for children . So that children can achieve success and success in life in the future . We as parents sometimes do not realize , our attitude to the child instead of the child will be dropped . For
example , with the hit , giving pressure which ultimately makes the
child a negative attitude , low self-esteem or self-conscious , timid
and did not dare to take risks , which in the end these characters will
be brought up to an adult. When such a mature character would become an obstacle for him to achieve and fulfill his desire . For example , there could be a public speaker because he is insecure or embarrassed . Not daring to take certain chances because he did not want to take the risk and fear of failure . In fact , if he is to be positive , the risk can be altered as a challenge to achieve success . You agree not it ?
Many say our success is determined by how our brain genius . The more we are , the more successful genius . The more we won the class championship title in a row , then the more successful we are . Is this true ? Wait wait !
I myself do not agree with these assumptions . Facts
prove , many successful people just do not get brilliant achievement in
school , they do not get a champion or the highest position in the
school . Why is that ? Because real success is not only determined by our intelligence alone . However,
the success was more dominant is determined by skill to bring up our
emotional relationship with self, others and the environment . Moreover , that should not be left out is our spiritual relationship with God Almighty .
Did
you know that the skills to build relationships with the three pillars (
self , social , and God ) are the characters people have success . And , let me tell you that the character is not entirely innate . Such a character could be formed . Wow , really? I say Yes ! And when the child was aged early - formed characters that. As
we discussed earlier , that early childhood is a period character
development of physical, mental and spiritual children begin to form . At
this early age , the character will be formed from the children learn
and absorb from our behavior as parents and from the surrounding
environment . In this age of mental DEVELOPMENT happened very quickly . At
that age the child also becomes very sensitive and insensitive to learn
and practice the things he sees , feels and listens from the
environment . Therefore , a positive environment will shape positive character and success .
Then , how to build character of children from an early age ?
The
character will be formed as a result of understanding the relationship
that must be experienced 3 every human ( triangle relationship) , the
relationship with oneself ( intrapersonal ) , the environment ( social
relationships and environment ) , and the relationship with Almighty God
( spiritual ) . Any
result that relationship will provide interpretation / understanding of
the values and beliefs eventually become children . How children understand the shape of the relationship will determine how the child treats his world . Understanding will negatively impact on the treatment of negative and positive understanding will treat her world positively. For
that , Growing positive understanding in children from an early age ,
one way to give confidence to the child to decide for himself ,
directing their potential to help children so they are better able to
explore by itself , does not suppress either directly or subtly , and so on . Familiarize children socialize and interact with their surroundings . Remember choice for the environment largely determines the formation of character . As the saying goes sellers mingle with fragrant perfume will come , hang out with fishy fish vendors will participate . As such, a good and healthy environment to grow healthy and good character , and vice versa . And that can not be overlooked is building a spiritual relationship with God Almighty . Spiritual
relationship with God Almighty awakened through implementation and
appreciation of ritual worship implemented in social life .
Well , now we understand why build character education of children from an early age is important . An early age is the age of gold , then take advantage of the golden age as well as possible .
